# Starling Grief Tending Circle

Starling Grief Tending Circle at Hornsey Vale Community Centre, Thursday 19 November 2026.

- Venue: Hornsey Vale Community Centre, Mayfield Road 60, N8 9LP London
- Go to page: https://hornseyvale.org/starling-grief-tending-circle/

![Starling Grief Tending Circle](https://noky.io/images/699d3ecc3f8db5b5c35a0d8dadbd19e1ea0442ade055d695d4b8bb9ad01584ca-600.webp)

A warm, confidential peer-to-peer grief tending circle where participants reflect, process and heal together. Haringey residents Jane Banks and Marina Sanchez invite people to explore their unique grief expression and share sadness, shock, anger, guilt, loneliness, humour and connection. The circle is named after the murmurations of starlings, inspired by a talk by Dr Zach Bush, as a vision of caring for each other communally. Sign-up in advance is required.

## Dates

- Thursday 19 November — Hornsey Vale Community Centre
- Thursday 3 December — Hornsey Vale Community Centre

Written by a model, sources: [hornseyvale.org](https://hornseyvale.org/starling-grief-tending-circle/)

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